People walk up to Nicole, all the time, and say how glad they are to meet the FIRST LADY. (The First Lady of FaithChurch.com.)
I always say, “That’s not the first lady… the first lady LEFT me! This is the SECOND lady!”
The first lady left me because I was always so stressed out. I was always trying to change her. I was always trying to FIX things and please everybody else.
When I met Nicole, I realized I had a SECOND CHANCE to get it right. I told her, up front, that I wasn’t gonna try and change her. She was an adult and she was gonna do what she was GONNA DO!
We must be alert at all times, sober-minded and well-balanced. And stress can get you as unbalanced as anything. Most of the time, we just need to work on our own situation and stop trying to change everyone else!
After all, people don’t like to have change FORCED on them!
Sometimes, a LITTLE change can be a good thing. Nicole promised me, “I’m not gonna try to change you, either…except maybe your HAIR and that CRAZY lookin’ outfit!”
I can live with that! (lol)
Have a great day, today! I call you BLESSED!